As time goes by you get to know the real person and realize that all the qualities you gave to them are or are not true. With Mellow, that is what happened. At first I thought he was ideal for “friends with benefit” type of thing, then I had a moment where I thought he was boyfriend material. And as I got to know him more, I realized what an amazing person he is, but he is not the one for me. That is not because he did something wrong, no, not at all. I got to see his true s